Okay yall, i need to vent. I'm getting soooo annoyed -__- with people and THEIR problem with my weight. I am very comfortable and confident with MY body, but for some odd reason people surrounding me have a problem with it. I think I carry myself very well and shit I think i look good and not " for a BIG girl" but for myself period. Okay okay i get HEALTH is a huge factor ( no pun intented lol) but last time I checked I'm pretty healthy. Honestly, I don't even think that's the concern. I've been told I need to lose weight to be in a wedding!! haha people are crazy.I just feel bad because I'm not the only one dealing with this issue. However I am a strong person where this doesn't effect how I see myself.I Just get annoyed after awhile.
I really wish that females especially "big girls" can see themselves, the way I do. I am not my hair, my BODY, my skin color, my hair texture. I am me for the things that me, ME. and everything I'm not make me everything I am. So in my title where I say "with dead weight you can't travel lite" meaning those people around you that try to hurt your feelings or put you down because of your body- they are the dead weight. These are the people you need to lose out of your life, so you can travel lite meaning be yourself.
So for the hug you need here goes one *hugs*
Love yourself and be yourself ladies :]